Do you think it will work? Why not try it?

I was attempting to help my aunt solve a cat-related problem. It involved purchasing a couple of items and changing a couple of human behaviors. To me it seemed like a potentially easy fix. Not guaranteed, of course – nothing is guaranteed when it comes to cats! — but why not try it?

Do you think it will work? Why not try it? (NEW CHART) Share on X


First, she agreed it was a good idea, but “forgot” to follow up.

“But,” I said, “I thought this was important to you…?” “It is,” she agreed.

So, I suggested she make a list. Unlike me, she hates making lists (guess it’s not genetic), so we discussed how it was going to help her solve the problem if she did.

When she finally did make a list (things to buy, things to do), she still didn’t take action.

Why not? Sometimes it’s a matter of time, and scheduling priorities. In her case, she wasn’t entirely sure which things to buy specifically, and as we all know, human behavior change can be challenging.

So, I identified the specific items that I thought would work, and where specifically to buy them, and suggested ways to hook her new behaviors onto already-existing habits.

She still didn’t do any of it.

I eventually asked her what the REAL reason was for her resistance.

Her ready answer: “I don’t think it will work.”


Well, as much as I wished she’d said so to begin with (I don’t think she knew either, to begin with), there was no arguing that point!

I immediately thought of my favorite Henry Ford quote:

If you think you can do a thing,

or think you can’t do a thing,

 you’re right.

If you think you can do a thing, or think you can’t do a thing, you’re right. — Henry Ford Share on X

Why do we hesitate to try things?

Later, I found myself thinking: Isn’t that the reason most of us don’t do most of the things we don’t do?

Why, for example, hadn’t I proceeded with certain plans of my own, including fix-it and improvement projects around the house? Reasons included: the project will be expensive; I need more information; I need to break the project down into smaller, more do-able steps; I need to ask for help.

I see most of these reasons as merely a part of the planning process, not dead ends. But not everyone sees it the same way and some people are more easily discouraged than others.

But another reason cropped up more often than I expected it would: I don’t think it will work.

Whether it’s my plan, or someone else’s idea or suggestion, we all need to think it will work…or the investment has to be pretty low… if we’re going to try it. Usually I figure I just haven’t hit on the right plan YET to motivate me to take action.

I’ve encountered this repeatedly when working with clients. If I suggest a plan of action, new system, or new product, and they don’t think it will work for them, I have always considered it my job to find something that WILL work for them. More specifically, something that they are willing to try. Nothing’s guaranteed. Sometimes we need to try a couple of things before we find the one that works. Most new plans, behaviors, processes, and systems need some tweaking once they are implemented.

When I was learning home staging and redesign (using what you already own), the unofficial class motto was “Let’s try it!” There were usually several of us to help move furniture. And if someone said, “Wonder what it would look like with the sofa over by the window?” someone else would say, “Let’s try it!” I mean, why not? If we didn’t like it we could just move it back. But some things are easier to try than others. I get it.

3 factors that affect any path of action:

It seems to me that almost any path of action depends on 3 things.

And it seems they apply whether we’re talking about organizing, home improvement, genealogy, fitness, or any life or career decision.

  1. The Importance, or desirability, of the hoped-for improvement or problem resolution.
  2. The Risk Belief, or internally perceived likelihood of success or failure.
  3. The Investment, or amount of money, time, and energy required.

The “Why Not Try It?” Chart

So, I came up with this chart to demonstrate my thoughts visually.

Based on the 3 criteria above, you can see 3 zones emerge:

  • The “Do It!” Zone = If you really want to achieve the outcome, and the investment would be low, and if you think the likelihood of success is high…well, then, you are probably going to do it, even without asking my opinion, or referring to a chart!
  • The “Think Twice” Zone = If the outcome is not all that important to you, or you think the likelihood of success is low, and the investment would be high…then think twice about whether to proceed.
  • The “Why not try it?” Zone = If the importance is medium-to-high, and the investment would be medium-to-low, and the only reason you’re not trying it is that you’re not sure it will work…why not try it?

Due to technical difficulties I can’t upload a larger image at this time. Maybe later.

What do you think?

Do you hesitate to try things because you’re not sure if they will work? Might you try something now that you’ve thought it through?

Please share with us in the comments below!

I can’t guarantee that what you try will work, but if you need more encouragement, here’s a post on why you should always believe in yourself: Always Believe in Yourself

P.S. My aunt told me, even before I told her I was writing about this, that she’s trying the plan I suggested. It’s too soon to report success, but I think trying it is already a bit of success in and of itself, don’t you?

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  1. Lucy Kelly on July 19, 2021 at 4:46 pm

    “Let’s try it” is a fabulous motto and attitude and I live by it. After all, what’s the worst that can happen if I don’t like the bookshelf by the window after all? I’ll try it and see and if it doesn’t feel right, I’ll move it back. The trouble seems to come when something has become too important – if I try it and it doesn’t work, terrible things will happen! “Let’s try it” is the perfect antidote to that worry.

    • Hazel Thornton on August 2, 2021 at 10:15 am

      Yes, “What’s the worst that can happen?” is another really good question to ask! Usually the worst is not very bad, or very likely. (Uh oh….I feel another chart coming on!)

  2. Martha Doster on July 20, 2021 at 11:09 am

    I loved it! And the chart was really smart – visuals are so helpful to people.
    “Why Not Try It?” may become my mantra.

    • Hazel Thornton on August 2, 2021 at 10:15 am

      Oh, I’m glad you found it helpful and let me know!

  3. Julie Bestry on July 21, 2021 at 11:25 pm

    “Let’s try it!” is so much easier when you have a partner in crime.

    On our own, some of us won’t risk failing, not because we see the plan as failing but *ourselves* as failing. This is true of our clients, as well. So sometimes, that risk belief ends up being a different flavor of success/failure than we’re able to express. But just offloading part of that responsibility to a professional organizer or your spouse or anyone with whom you’re “trying” it depersonalizes the task and the outcome. So yes, let’s try it!

    • Hazel Thornton on August 2, 2021 at 10:16 am

      Good points, Julie!

  4. George Ann Hankins on August 2, 2021 at 10:04 am

    This is your aunt. Yes, I tried it,but discovered another reason why “it won’t work “. Thanks for your help and suggestions.

    • Hazel Thornton on August 2, 2021 at 10:12 am

      LOL, yes — in the realm of “what’s the worst that could happen”, you thought of a good one. But at least you tried (or were willing to try) something new!

  5. Sharon Lowenheim on August 3, 2021 at 11:08 am

    What a great mantra! And I love the chart. It lays out the concept so clearly.

    • Hazel Thornton on August 5, 2021 at 10:50 am

      Thanks, Sharon!

  6. Phaedra Studt on September 21, 2021 at 2:14 pm

    I find that I sometimes get hung up on some of my crafting projects because I feel like it’s not going to work how I envision it.

    But then how will I improve my skills if I never try?

    Sometimes, I need to get out of my own head because the worst thing that can happen is I have to replace my materials to try a project again.

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